There’s no right way to achieve orgasm; it can take some time for you and your partner to find what works best.
If you’re new to sex, you may want to try different positions or sex toys to determine which ones work for you. It will offer you an idea of what feels right and what your partner likes.
Warm Up
Before achieving the G spot orgasm, a woman must be warmed up. It will make her feel more comfortable and ready to receive your stimulation.
You can warm her up in various ways: using your hands, a sex toy, or some lubricant. Ideally, she should be damp from foreplay, so applying a bit of lube will help her stay moist while you stimulate her G.
Once you’re confident that your woman is warm and lubricated, insert one or two fingers inside her vagina and gently run them across the soft pink ridges that form the body of the G spot. Then, try experimenting with different speeds and pressures to see what feels best.
The G-spot can feel very sensitive to touch, which is why it’s so important to warm up your partner before you hit it. A quick pat on the top of her vagina will get the blood flowing, and a few drops of lube will help keep her comfortable.
Finding your partner’s G spot is often more challenging than her clitoris or vaginal canal, but it doesn’t mean she can’t experience pleasure there. Some women have zero response to this area, while others can’t find it even after much experimentation.
Find Her G Spot
The G spot is an erogenous zone thought to sit just underneath the front vaginal wall and is said to provide intense, clitoral-like pleasure. Whether or not you experience a G spot orgasm is up to your body and how you respond to stimulation.
There are many ways to have your woman achieve a G-spot orgasm, from penetrative sex and using fingers to sex toys and sex positions that stimulate the area. The best way to find out what works for your woman is to experiment and play.
For penetrative sex, choose positions that allow for deeper penetration and tighter contact, like spooning or cowgirl. These positions create friction that stimulates the G spot and your partner’s clitoris.
Shower sex is another fun way to stimulate the G spot. Again, experiment with different angles and leaning backs to see what helps your woman – straddling the edge is an exciting position where one partner’s back is towards the shower head while the other is kneeling under, exploring orally.
While some women have reported the G spot as an essential determinant of orgasm, others find that the sensations aren’t enough to produce a full-on orgasm.
Stimulate Her G Spot
The G spot is a hotly debated area of the vagina where some women feel more intense sensations than other erogenous zones, such as the clitoris. While some doctors and plastic surgeons offer “G shot” injections that they claim will make the G spot larger or more sensitive, no scientific evidence supports this.
For penetrative sex, choosing positions that allow for deeper penetration or tighter contact can help stimulate the G spot, such as the cowgirl and doggy style. Also, sex toys designed for penetration can help reach the G spot.
If you’re exploring your G spot alone, lying down and pressing your fingers into your vagina can be helpful. To do so, insert one or two fingers (palm facing upward) into the vagina and then press down with a come hither motion against the front wall of your vagina using varying speeds and pressures.
As you work to stimulate your G spot, notice if the area changes from soft and smooth to hard or dense. It may also feel spongy, puckered, or slightly ridged.
It’s essential to remember that the G spot is a part of your clitoral network, and it doesn’t have to be a separate entity from the rest of your anatomy.
Let Her Go
The G spot is a cluster of nerves in your vagina, most notably near the top of your anterior vaginal wall. It’s also connected to the clitoris, a tiny pleasure pea you can touch during self-pleasure.
In the past, many scientists believed that the G spot and clitoris were separate structures. Still, researchers have since determined that they are connected and send nerves to the pudendal nerve, which is responsible for triggering pleasurable sex sensations.
You can stimulate the G spot with your fingers or a toy designed specifically for it. However, some women find it more intense to use their hands instead of toys.
Start by inserting a finger or two into the vagina about two inches deep. Then, gently feel for a rough patch of tissue slightly different from the surrounding area.
Next, stimulate the G spot by moving your finger in a come hither motion. Again, lubricant is essential down there because it can be susceptible.
